Perhaps the best male chastity advice I can give to any man who’s seriously thinking about asking his wife to lock him in orgasm denial is this: be careful what you wish for! And this is…
Male Chastity Advice
From a woman who really does know what she’s talking about, since I live a 24/7 lifestyle with my husband, John.
You see, most men have the fantasy all worked out in their heads, often planned over many years and down to a remarkable level of detail.
But there’s a fundamental flaw in their thinking which shall now reveal: in all your fantasies, you fantasise about what you want and you get it; but in the reality, you get what she gives you.
And take it from me, even though most women are ambivalent at best, and even reluctant to play the male chastity game, when she starts to experience the pleasure she gets from keeping you locked… well… just don’t say i didn’t warn you!
Now, that’s all a little tongue in cheek, because it’s important to make sure you both go into it with your eyes fully open. So here are three pieces of the best male chastity advice you’ll ever get:
- Establish ground rules. This is not the same as topping from the bottom. It’s agreeing the rules of the game before you start. And you really do need to think about this seriously – if you say ‘you can keep me in permanent orgasm denial‘, then be sure that’s what you mean. Paradoxically, setting the rules like this, while it might seem square and contrived, actually makes it easier to relax later on.
- Be serious but not solemn. Male chastity is supposed to be fun for you both, and bring you closer together. So be sure to keep checking things are going OK for both of you – because if it’s not working for both of you, it won’t work for either of you in the end.
- Do what YOU want, not what people tell you to do. This is a big one for me. When John and I started this and I was looking around for information, I was shocked at how rude and aggressive some people could be telling others how to live their lives, saying, in effect, “if you don’t do it this way, you’re doing it wrong“. But the truth is, whatever works for both of you is by definition the right way – because it’s YOUR life, and no one else gets a vote!
Now, if you trawl the internet and look on the blogs you’re going to come across a lot of hype, nonsense and downright lies — all masquerading as ‘male chastity advice’.
But if you’re going to look for advice, then you know it makes sense to get it from a sane, sensible and genuine 24/7 lifestyle keyholder who lives this day in, day out, don’t you?